Revenge on girlfriends, online exploration
You have to be creative, and talk about such things which sincerely display her qualities. It is a proven fact that women like to talk about them and tell others about their experiences. Ask about her, what she likes or dislikes, her childhood memories, her fears, her passion, her embarrassing experiences of life etc. Always be attentive when she talks, and ask random questions every now and then. However, don't be judgmental about anything as it is the last thing the woman will be accepting from you.