My entries and thoughts on questions for your boyfriend
It is a proven fact that women like to talk about them and tell others about their experiences. You should start asking her about the things she likes or dislikes, her obsession, her nightmares, and her discomfiting incidents of life. Always be attentive when she talks, and ask random questions every now and then. However, never give your fixed opinion about any past experience. Make her feel comfortable, and try to find out reasons for her actions and reactions.